Friday, 25 December 2015

A Story About Pretty Girl, the Stray Dog We Couldn’t Give Up On

A Story About Pretty Girl, the Stray Dog We Couldn’t Give Up On



Never give up on anything, least of all a dog.


december january 2016 WOLIRuss and Reyn for Reader's Digest
Her name was perfect. She came to them in the dead of night, in the cold. She
was more than half dead, starved down to bones, her hair completely eaten away by mange. She had been run off from more than one yard when she finally crept into an empty doghouse in the trees beyond my mother’s yard. At least she was out of the wind. They found her, my mother and brother, in the daylight of the next day. They could not even tell, at first, she was a dog.
“And it broke my heart,” my mother said.
They did not call the vet because she knew what the vet would do. The dog was too far gone to save; any fool could see that. My mama lives in the country and has to run off two wandering dogs a week, but this time, she said, “I just couldn’t. She couldn’t even get up.” How do you run off a dog that cannot stand?
The broke-down dog had stumbled on two people who hate to give up on anything, even a month-old newspaper. They save batteries that have not had a spark of anything in them for a long, long time. My mother keeps pens that stopped writing in 1974. My point is, there is always a little use, a little good, a little life left in anything, and who are they to decide when something is done for good.
My brother Mark looked at her, at her tragic face, and named her. “Hey, Pretty Girl,” he said.
It was as if he could see beyond the ruin, or maybe into it. I don’t know.
Her hips were bad, which was probably why she was discarded in the first place, and her teeth were worn down. Her eyes were clouded. But Mark and my mother fed her, gave her water, and bathed her in burned motor oil, the way my people have been curing the mange for generations. They got her looking less atrocious, and then they called the vet.
The vet found she had heartworm. She was walking dead, anyway, at her age. It was then I saw her, still a sack of bones. It would be a kindness, I told my mother, to put her down. She nodded her head.

Amonth later, I pulled into the driveway to see a beautiful white German shepherd standing watch at the front of the house. It was not a miracle; her ailments did not magically cease. But together, my mother and brother had tended her and even let her live in the house. She ate people food and drank buttermilk out of an aluminum pie tin. She was supposed to last, at most, a few weeks or months. She lived three more years—decades, in dog years—following my brother to the garden to watch for snakes and listen for thunder.
“I prayed for her,” my mother said. “Some people say you ain’t supposed to pray for
a dog, but …”
And then after the gift of years, Pretty Girl began to fail and died. She is buried in the mountain pasture.
The garden is already planted. Some things were planted according to science, according to soil and weather. And some things were planted according to lore, the shape of the moon, and more. That is fine with me. There are things we cannot explain, things beyond science, like how a man could name a ravaged and dying dog and have her rise inside that, somehow, to make it true.

Thursday, 24 December 2015

Attention Early Birds! 12 Times Shopping Early in the Morning Can Save You Money

Attention Early Birds! 12 Times Shopping Early in the Morning Can Save You Money

Who knew that morning is the best time to save money? But it’s true: All kinds of stores and service providers offer cheaper prices for morning customers. Here, smart ways to save cash before lunchtime.


Amuse yourself

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Many museums and botanical gardens, even theme parks and skating rinks, offer free or discounted admission before noon on certain days of the week, like Saturdays, when afternoon visits are proportionally greater than thinner morning crowds.

Gas up

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You’ll generally find the cheapest gas before noon. Big gas retailers set prices at about 10 or 11 a.m., according to Brad Proctor, the founder of GasPriceWatch. Proctor says gas prices go up right before noon about 93 percent of the time. In addition, buying gas in the morning, when it’s slightly cooler outside, gets you slightly more fuel, because the gas has more density than when it is warmer. And with gas prices as they are, every little bit helps.

Grab some chow

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While you’re gassing up, you might actually want to treat yourself to breakfast on the go—many gas stations offer “loss leader” deals on coffee and an egg sandwich or bagel and cream cheese for a dollar—less than you could make the same meal at home. With gas prices as high as they are, stores want to build customer loyalty. Offering cheap eats in the morning is one way to do this.

See a movie

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Some large theater chains offer discounts on tickets for movies that screen before noon.
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Fire up the oven

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Avoid creating unnecessary heat and humidity in the house during summer days by doing oven and stove-top cooking in the cooler morning hours—then reheat your dish in an efficient microwave, which won’t heat up the house. You’ll save on cooling bills by not making that air conditioner work harder. Ditto for doing the laundry and running the dishwasher.

Give the garden a drink

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Giving your rhododendrons and roses an early-morning watering saves money on water because the liquid is more readily absorbed into the ground in the a.m. hours. It will evaporate more quickly in the noonday sun, which could mean watering again later in the day. Plus, any residual water left on the leaves by a morning watering will quickly dry out, preventing fungal and bacterial issues that can arise from evening watering, saving money on fungicides and other garden chemicals.

Get your hair done

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Some hair salons and barbershops offer early-bird specials to customers willing to come in for a clip before 11 a.m.

Go shopping

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Many stores have their “loss leader” sales in the early morning hours. You’ve seen the circulars: “Wool cardigans, $12, 7 a.m. to 10 a.m. only.” Some even reserve their drastic clearance sales for morning hours—“take an additional 75 percent off clearance racks between 8 a.m. and noon.” Of course, this is only worthwhile if you need what’s on sale. If you are food shopping, you might save some money by doing it in the morning before you get really hungry. Afternoon shoppers, ravenous for dinner, have a tendency to buy food they don’t need.
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Hit the gym

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Early-morning hours at the gym are very busy. Everyone wants to get a workout in before the workday begins. From 9 or 10 until noon, however, many gyms are ghost towns. Sign up with a gym that offers discounted membership fees for those who pump iron during “off-peak” hours.

Make doctor appointments

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The cost of the visit won’t be cheaper, per se, but you won’t have to wait as long if you get there first. And time is money. You’re out the door sooner and have more time to spend doing something else.

Find your inner artist

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Local art and craft schools offer “morning bargain” classes that are less costly than afternoon or evening enrollment costs.

Get baked

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Visit your local bakery as soon as it opens and see what goods from the previous day are selling half or even two-thirds off. These items are perfectly fresh and wholesome—and they can be froze
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6 Things to Absolutely Always Buy at Big-Box Stores (And 4 to Get at Retail

6 Things to Absolutely Always Buy at Big-Box Stores (And 4 to Get at Retail)

Need prescription drugs? Cleaning supplies? Here's when warehouse club prices are worth it, and when they're probably not.

Buy: Prescription Drugs

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When Consumer Reports called more than 200 pharmacies nationwide for prices on a month's supply of commonly prescribed drugs, it found a 450 percent difference in cost between the highest- and lowest-priced stores. Drugs at big-box store pharmacies were much cheaper than those at many drugstore chains, especially if you opt for generics. Plus, you don't need a membership—warehouse pharmacies are required by law to remain open to the public.

Buy: Cereal

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Stock up on the warehouse version that comes in two large bags to a pack. You can save 60 percent on favorites such as Froot Loops and Honey Nut Cheerios by buying in bulk. Even organic cereals can cost 25 percent less at warehouse clubs. 

Buy: Pet Supplies

Buy: Pet SuppliesStepan Popov/iStock
Certain brands of dog food can be up to 60 percent less expensive at a warehouse compared with popular pet stores, so it pays to comparison shop for your pooch's favorite kibble.

Buy: Liquor

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Some warehouse clubs have partnerships with vineyards that award them deeply discounted prices for bulk purchases—which means you can save about 30 percent on certain wines. Warehouse store brands of other liquors, like Kirkland vodka, can cost nearly 40 percent less than premium brands like Grey Goose. Depending on your state laws, you may not need a membership to purchase liquor at a club store.
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Buy: Men's Dress Shirts

Buy: Men's Dress ShirtsPgiam/iStock
Clothing is often deeply discounted but still of good quality at big-box stores. We've seen men's dress shirts at a warehouse store for 30 percent less than popular retailers. 

Buy: Charcoal

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Though it comes in large quantities—typically two 20-pound bags packaged together rather than a single five- to ten- pound bag—charcoal is usually less expensive at warehouse stores than at supermarkets. During grilling season, you're likely to use it up quickly. Even if you don't, charcoal has an indefinite shelf life if stored in a cool, dry place.

Skip: Over-The-Counter-Medicine

Skip: Over-The-Counter-Medicinewebking/iStock
You probably don't use OTC medications every day, so that jumbo bottle of pain reliever might expire before you can finish it. Choose a regular-size bottle of a generic brand at your local drugstore or supermarket. 

Skip: Cleaning Supplies

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Liquid cleaners typically lose some effectiveness after six months to a year (certain powders may have an indefinite shelf life if stored in a cool, dry place). Unless you have a large family, purchase household supplies like window cleaner, dish detergent, laundry soap, and bleach in regular-size containers at retail stores. 
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Skip: Paper Goods

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Common household items go on sale so often that supermarket discounts may be deeper than warehouse price cuts. Pairing store sales with manufacturer coupons can dramatically shrink your bill. 

Skip: Meat

Skip: Meat FotografiaBasica/iStock
Supermarkets rotate sales on various meats so shoppers will come for cheap prices and then buy more profitable packaged goods. Manager markdowns are also often available when meat nears its expiration date.

Sources: Andrea Woroch, a consumer savings expert; Jeanette Pavini, a savings expert at coupons.com; Trae Bodge, senior lifestyle editor for the Real Deal blog at retailmenot.com; consumerreports.org; kiplinger.com; goodhousekeeping.com; today.com; womansday.com; thecouponproject.com; and thedailymeal.com

Save Money on Clothes: 13 Creative Tips That Won’t Cramp Your Style

1. Buy same-color socks in bulk. If the dryer “eats” one, you have an automatic match in your dresser drawer—and you probably won’t need to buy a new pair of socks. And you’ll pay less buying packs of socks instead of individual pairs.

2. Freeze your pantyhose. Yes, we’re serious. Fill a plastic bag with water, drop in your new stockings, zip up the top, and toss the bag in the freezer overnight. Thaw the concoction at room temperature. You’ll strengthen the fibers in the stockings, cut down on runs, and save the cost of additional pairs of hose. You can continue protecting your stockings by freezing them once a month, without water, for one night.

3. Hang on to cool buttons. Keep nice, fancy, or unusual buttons when you recycle or toss worn-out clothing. You can use them to change the look of a garment that’s starting to bore you or enliven a plain shirt that needs a little pizzazz.

4. Buy next year’s attire now. Go shopping toward the end of the selling season. (Buy spring and summer clothes in July or August rather than March, when prices are highest). This will mean some planning and forethought—you’re going to get most of the wear out of the clothes next summer. But the payoff is enormous.

5. Be a savvy consignment shopper. Don’t patronize just any. Find one close to a wealthy neighborhood, where you may be surprised to find stacks of hardly or never-worn clothes, many from top designers—and some items with the tags still on! You’ll get amazing bargains on extraordinary clothes you won’t find anywhere else.

6. Avoid “one size fits all” clothing. Most manufacturers who label their clothing this way are pulling the wool over your eyes. You will usually find this designation on lower-priced clothing, mostly on tops for teenagers. It’s easier—and cheaper—to mass-produce and inventory a garment when it’s all in one size. But the only garments that are truly “one size fits all” are some socks, which are made of fabric that’s stretchy enough to adapt to a broad range of foot sizes. Otherwise, when you see “one size fits all” on a garment, keep shopping.

7. Keep the receipt. If you pay full price for a new blouse, hold on to the receipt in an envelope in your car. Two weeks later, drop into the store with your receipt. If the garment has gone on sale in the meantime, go to the register and ask for credit.

8. Use the store credit card—strategically. If you’re making a big purchase at a department store, go ahead and get the extra discount they offer for accepting a store credit card. But be sure to pay off the balance immediately so you don’t have to pay finance charges; store credit cards often have exorbitant interest rates.

9. Wash jeans inside out: And use cold water on the gentle cycle. If some of the dye escapes from the fabric during the wash, it has a better chance of being reabsorbed into the legs, making the jeans look newer, longer.

10. Fix, don’t toss, costume jewelry: Use nail polish to reset loose stones in costume jewelry easily and inexpensively. Simply use clear nail polish as the glue; it’s a quick fix no one will detect.

 Save Money on Clothes: 13 Creative Tips That Won’t Cramp Your Style

Insider secrets to get good deals on clothing and make your favorite duds last longer.

                                      
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11. Let your boots breathe. Don’t store any shoes or boots in the attic or basement during the off-season. The shifts in temperature will prematurely age them. Place them in a closet that allows air to circulate and they’ll last longer.

12. Don’t clean your clothes out of habit. Many people believe you should wash a garment every time you wear it. But that’s a waste of detergent and effort. When you get home from work, change into your T-shirt and jeans, then evaluate your work duds before you throw them into the hamper. If your clothing passes this five-point check, put it on a hanger, air it out for two hours, then return it to your closet.
  • Does it need repair? Any rips, missing buttons, falling hems, or broken zippers?
  • Does it need a dry cleaner’s care? Tough stains, particularly oily ones, should be taken to the dry cleaner within a day. If you wait weeks, the odds of getting the stain out are dramatically reduced.
  • Does it need to be laundered? Does it have any smudges or dirt?
  • Does it pass the sniff test? Steel yourself and get a whiff of the armpit.
  • Does your body need to be washed? If the answer is yes, then chances are the clothes that were hanging on that body need to be cleaned too.

13. Save a broken zipper. Don’t automatically throw away a garment if the zipper stops working. Try surrounding it with Velcro; you’ll avoid the work of ripping out the zipper and the cost of replacing the item.

Clean and Care for Sweaters: 6 Tips to Make Your Favorite Knits Last Forever

Clean and Care for Sweaters: 6 Tips to Make Your Favorite Knits Last Forever

Quality knits can last upwards of 10 years. Here's how to show your sweaters the TLC they deserve

Put an End to Pills

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Use a disposable razor to shave away those pesky fuzzies, recommends Mommy Savers. Lay the garment on a flat surface and razor over the pills using short, quick strokes. For an even simpler fix, use a pair of scissors to snip off the most noticeable pills. With each method, be careful not to cut the fabric itself.

Patch a Pulled Thread Like a Pro

Patch a Pulled Thread Like a ProiStock/dstaerk
If a pull has caused the rows around it to bunch, gently stretch the fabric back into shape, advises Real Simple. Next, use a sewing needle to push the snag through to the inside of the sweater. Keep everything in place by tying the leftover thread in a knot (on the inside). If the knit is thick enough, dab the knot with clear nail polish to stop it from coming undone. Never cut a snagged thread; it will turn into an unraveling hole.

Don't Hang Your Knits

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Hanging a sweater by its shoulders can cause the garment to stretch out and loose shape under its own weight. Ideally, fold your knits and store them in a dresser. If you must use the closet to save space, fold the sweater shoulder-to-shoulder and drape it over the bar of a hanger. That way, the weight is more evenly distributed.

Master Your Hand-Washing Technique

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As with any item you'd like to keep looking great, read your sweater's care instructions before cleaning. For hand-wash cashmere, try this technique from Real Simple: First, fill a clean sink with slightly warm water (about 85 degrees Fahrenheit) and add a small amount of gentle fine-washables detergent. Baby shampoo is a good choice. Place your sweater into the sink, and swirl it around in a circular motion. Never stretch, pull, or rub the fabric together. Twirl for two to five minutes.
Drain the suds and refill the sink with clean water, keeping the garment in the basin. Avoid allowing the water to beat directly onto the fabric, which could cause it to stretch. When no suds remain, drain the water. Create a loose ball with the wet fabric and press it against the side of the sink to release as much water as possible. Do not wring it out (this could do just as much damage as tossing it in the washing machine).
Place a large towel on a flat surface and lay the garment on top of the towel, smoothing out all of the wrinkles. Starting at the top of the sweater, roll the towel and the garment together, pressing down on the roll to help the towel absorb the water in the sweater. Unroll. Place the sweater on a mesh drying rack away from radiators and direct sunlight until it's completely dry.
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Never Toss Spare Buttons

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Put each sweater's spare buttons someplace you'll be able to find them again. One idea we love is this business-card organizer that keeps all of your spare buttons, thread samples, cloth tags, and fabric-care labels in one place. Pick up the organizer from an office-supply store, and slip your spares into the compartments.

Store Sweaters Safely

Store Sweaters SafelyiStock/PeterPolak
Once spring comes around, make sure to pack your sweaters away carefully. First, make sure they are are clean. Even if an item doesn't look dirty, remnants of food, sweat, and perfume can attract moths. Next, fold each one using white tissue paper (colored paper could stain your clothes). For a full folding tutorial, see here. Store the sweaters away from direct sunlight.